Sexting 101: Talking dirty for beginners

Talking dirty texts—sexting

Does dirty talk turn you on? Or, would you like to try it but are you worried you’ll come off looking ridiculous? If you fall into the second category, then sending a dirty text message to your partner could be the ideal for you to test the waters.

Read any advice on spicing up your sex life and the chances are, talking dirty to your partner features in the list. But if it’s not something that comes naturally to you, you may have no idea where to begin. At Hampers 4 Two we’ve come up with a few ideas to help you on your sexting journey.

Sending your first sext

One of the biggest hurdles to sexting is worrying about how your partner will respond. We recommend starting out with some flirty, slightly dirty attention grabbers.


…filling my mind with naughty thoughts

…turning me on, I can’t concentrate

…thinking about me and get back to work

…filling my head with deliciously dirty ideas

I can’t wait to…

… get you alone, in bed, uninterrupted

…run my hands over every inch of you

…feel your lips on my skin

I’m thinking of you right now. Are you blushing? You should be

I’m so horny right now

If you were here right now you could feel exactly how turned on I am

You get the idea—and hopefully, so will your partner. It takes 2 to sext successfully. If your partner doesn’t respond or doesn’t keep the sexy conversation going don’t be concerned. It could be that you’ve caught them at a bad time.

When it comes to sexting, timing is crucial. Imagine you get a sexy message at work when you are in the middle of a meeting. There’s a good chance you wouldn’t be able to continue the conversation.

If you do get a dirty response to your sext continue the conversation. You can be as explicit as you’d like—sexting is an art form, and what you write is a personal choice. As long as you both enjoy the conversation it can be a fantastic form of foreplay.

Build up your passions with promises of what you’ll do to each other when you next see each other and when you do get together things will be explosive. And while you’re at it, why not hop over to our hampers page and buy yourselves a little treat?

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