Have you thought about using a cock ring, but just aren’t sure how it works? Well, this blog post is for you! Vibrating cock rings like the Calexotics Fluttering Enhancer—available in our Subtle Seduction and For(e) Play hampers—can help you and your partner have mind-blowing orgasms.
When it comes to erections, cock rings help a man to get harder and stay hard for longer. They also intensify his orgasm. Throw in a vibrating attachment and the extra clitoral stimulation intensifies the woman’s orgasm too!
Fitting a cock ring
Cock rings can be made of hard materials like metal or glass or soft, stretchy materials. Silicone cock rings like the Fluttering Enhancer are stretchy, so there’s no need to measure up before purchase. Ideal for beginners, they are comfortable, easy to fit and remove, long-lasting and can be sterilised.
Using a cock ring
Lube up
Always apply a water-based lube to the inside of the cock ring before putting it on. It protects the ring and makes it easier to slide on and take off.
Semi-soft
Put the cock ring on before his penis is fully erect. Slide it along the shaft to the base. It will feel tighter as your man becomes hard. If it’s too tight and hurts remove it immediately. Same thing if there is pronounced swelling.
Once is enough
Only use a cock ring for a single session and don’t wear it for longer than 20 minutes. Make sure your man takes it off immediately if he starts to feel numb or you notice his penis becoming discoloured.
Go limp
Unless it’s an emergency, you want to let his penis go flaccid before removing the cock ring. The cock ring will slide off easily (provided you’ve lubed up before putting it on).
Never let your man go to sleep wearing a cock ring, and don’t let him wear it all night. Cock rings are completely safe if used correctly, but can damage erectile tissue if worn for too long. So remember the 20-minute rule, and let the games begin!
Keep an eye out for our new Rendezvous 4 Two Hamper coming soon, which also includes the Calexotics Fluttering Enhancer.
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